Can you understand the opposite sex?

^ Chicago 1543 plays = Borders on the obscene and may be offensive to some people.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 I don't understand women, but I can't say that I really understand anybody.

Pretty much accurate

Originally posted by CCVP Originally posted by JJLehto Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 I don't understand women, but I can't say that I really understand anybody. Pretty much accurate I understand myself, for the most part. . . . .

Lucky you: I'm not even sure to understand myself.

I've had some pretty strange experiences with women. Once I traveled the road with a band that featured 3 women as the frontline. I played daddy for the longest time when we stayed at Holiday Inns. I brought them food, listened to their problems, and kept the guy groupies away from them. One was bisexual, another was confused about her sexuality, and the 3rd was a little sleezy. They always clinged to me. They still call the house monthly. Almost 30 years later and they still call to talk. My wife understands the connection between the 4 of us being on the road for years and indulging in music talk, but I believe strongly it has to do with something else....like a relationship or love itself. Although my wife had played in many bands with me and is understanding of the relationship between the 4 of us, I for one would not care to be on the other side of the fence. I have been nothing but a brother to the 3 of them, yet you can read between the lines and understand that if I was not married, it would cross the border in a hot minute. I have always tried to avoid women the majority of the time and it's the wrong move to make because then they have reason to chase after you. ? I've tried to pretend I was insane (which isn't hard), or gross them out and it does not work. They still come across with passion and signals that indicate more than friendship. Friendship is where it all starts...but I still honestly don't get it! Someone care to help me too?

I believe I'm quite free minded, not my fault many of us proggers are confused!

I don't know, alcohol can do wonderful things for shyness but understanding yourself better?

Originally posted by JJLehto I believe I'm quite free minded, not my fault many of us proggers are confused! I don't know, alcohol can do wonderful things for shyness but understanding yourself better?

Make it LSD then.

Originally posted by JJLehto Originally posted by CCVP Originally posted by JJLehto I believe I'm quite free minded, not my fault many of us proggers are confused! I don't know, alcohol can do wonderful things for shyness but understanding yourself better? Make it LSD then. That would definitely work better

Except if you give it ot her; on such case that would be rape.


Edited by CCVP - April 05 2012 at 16:08

Ok i may be completely off the track here but i do not think women are that hard to understand. From what i see and hear, they tell us all time how they feel and what their desires are, not always with words of course : One guy have to be attentive and be able to read between the lines.
The problem is, and i speak only for myself here, i'm sometimes unreceptive or just don't wan't to play the game. The reason why i'm single right now where i can act like the Neanderthal i truly am.

I don't understand anyone.  But then no one understands me either, so it's a wash.

Originally posted by rushfan4 Originally posted by Barbu ^ Chicago 1543 plays = Borders on the obscene and may be offensive to some people. I suppose, but I do find that women like Chicago.

You're a smart man