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Topic: Sadly my Mum just died
Posted By: BaldFriede
Subject: Sadly my Mum just died
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 12:00
Sadly my Mum just died. She was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer about three months ago, and her health had been deteriorating rapidly since then. We are all very sad here; she had been a great woman. She died peacefully at home at the age of 85. R.I.P.


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Posted By: Rivertree
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 12:11
I'm very sorry ro read that, Friede. My deepest condolences ...


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Posted By: AEProgman
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 12:48
Very sorry to hear that also.  My deepest sympathy for you and family.  Nothing else to say but I hate cancer!

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Posted By: Finnforest
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 13:00
I'm very sorry, Friede, and I wish you peace. Losing our parents is one of the darkest moments of our lives. I still struggle with it often.

Peace to your familyHeart


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Posted By: Atavachron
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 13:09
My deepest condolences.   My mother passed a few months ago.



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Posted By: Finnforest
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 13:43
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Not sure if I knew that, David. Very sorry, my friend.  Damn, it sucks.


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Posted By: Man With Hat
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 14:48
So sorry to read this terrible news. My deepest condolences for you and yours. 




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Posted By: Icarium
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 15:00
My condolanxes to you and sad to hear about your mom. May you and your family find resolution in the best memories of her.

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Posted By: Raff
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 15:15
So sorry for your loss, Friede. Thinking of you in this difficult momentHeart.


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Posted By: Quinino
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 15:36


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Posted By: Snicolette
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 16:22
I am sorry to hear of your loss, Friede.  My mom died suddenly of a brain aneurysm many years ago and I miss her every day.  I am also familiar with the swiftness of pancreatic cancer.  I am sure that you will carry her always with you.  

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Posted By: omphaloskepsis
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 16:45
That hurts so bad. My deepest condolences Friede.  


Posted By: micky
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 17:02
my deepest condolences to you and your family Friede..  I know you do and will cherish the time you had with her and all the good and wonderful memories and do consider yourself lucky you had that.  I was not myself and have always envied the relationship Raff had with hers and though it has been many years since her passing Raff still misses her mother deeply and cherishes her memories of her..  perhaps even more than with me haha. 

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Posted By: siLLy puPPy
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 18:43
So sorry to hear, Friede. Add my condolensces to the love sent your way
Möge sie in Frieden ruhen


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Posted By: YESESIS
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 19:04
As others have said you still have all those great memories. You have your spouse of course, and all of us are here for you. Hug


Posted By: Blacksword
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 19:30
My deepest sympathy. I'm so sorry for your loss.

The loss of a parent is very tough. My father and mother are both gone now.

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Posted By: kenethlevine
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 21:09
my condolences for your loss, Friede


Posted By: AFlowerKingCrimson
Date Posted: July 19 2019 at 22:49
I'm very sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.


Posted By: lazland
Date Posted: July 20 2019 at 02:31
Deepest condolences, Friede. Hold on to those memories.

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Posted By: rogerthat
Date Posted: July 20 2019 at 02:34
So sorry to hear that.  May her soul rest in peace.


Posted By: tempest_77
Date Posted: July 20 2019 at 04:02
So sorry to hear this. My thoughts and condolences are with you.

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Posted By: Machinemessiah
Date Posted: July 20 2019 at 08:34
How sad ! ... my thoughts are with you and your loved ones... May your mom have found peace and you can find solace.


Posted By: TCat
Date Posted: July 20 2019 at 09:48
My deepest condolences to you, your loved ones and your family.  May she be remembered and kept alive in your thoughts and love.  We'll all be thinking of you as you go through this time. 

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Posted By: King of Loss
Date Posted: July 20 2019 at 09:57
RIP


Posted By: Woon Deadn
Date Posted: July 21 2019 at 11:23
There's a nice (at least to many of my compatriots) Ukrainian song called mAmyna vYshn'a - Mother's Cherry-Tree. There's a sort of pretty extremely low budget music video for it, practically every Ukrainian has rural, agricultural roots. Everybody has grandparents who live in a village. So, this esthetics may be very foreign to some. Still, the nicest in this song is the words. In Ukrainian. I am not an expert in translation, so believe me, the words say good things of a mother, and that's it: 







Posted By: Woon Deadn
Date Posted: July 21 2019 at 11:56
To the more modern in all respects music. Another Ukrainian female singer, once titled the Golden Voice Of Ukraine, Taisiya Povaliy, performed this famous (for us) a cappella song about mother in Ukrainian. It is a tearjerker, actually, again: 



There are two notable moments about this stuff. First, Mrs. Povaliy is now hated by many Ukrainians as she was the member of the Party Of Regions and did not support Euromaidan. Some go that far as to say she is the enemy of Ukrainian people. Like, Stalin has died, but his terminology lives on... Second, the man who wrote the lyrics (he was actually the poet and it was the poem, initially) was the life-long member of the Communist Party... Uhm, not every Communist kills and rapes, in fact those who did, mostly died in the 1950s - if we speak about our lands, at least. The Communists also led this woman with a golden voice from a distant village to become a celebrity. I am not going to defend the Communism as such, I am just telling that hardly anybody in North Korea would love to live in it if he/she had a choice. But that's not quite the case with post-Stalin USSR, oh no. There was a very specific Soviet atmosphere that many miss today. Not that they want it back - but to just paint the Soviet Union black... that's childish. And that's very untrue. Though in case of Pol Pot's Cambodia, North Korea et al - yeah, there's hardly anything that people would really miss.

I hope that I helped you to think of something else than your loss, and so somewhat made you feel better. 

As you can easily see, English is far from being my native tongue :-). 
Still, I thought for a long time what would I write on the death of my mother (which has not happened, yet). Again, excuse me if I chose wrong words, as I improvised and it was a stream of words that looked nicely and sounded nicely rather than having obvious meaning - but there's a verse, which I hope can be interesting to you: 

Tonight my mother has died
Was she ideal? Was she perfect? 
Was her all life right?

Then tell me the truth 
Of people wretched in blood, wrenched with blood 
Kind of being kind 
Pretty woven, gladly blind.

What if they are forsakenly forethought 
Aren't grand enough, weren't gruesome nor tough
Riders of the rite, 
Compare them all them crap 
To my mom, 
Darling Mom
That has timelessly died a few moments before,  
tonight.

Mar 8, 2019 
1:10 AM


Posted By: HackettFan
Date Posted: July 21 2019 at 15:40
You have my most sincere condolences.

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Posted By: rushfan4
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 06:56
My condolences Friede.  Treasure the good memories of time spent with your mom.


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Posted By: Argo2112
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 07:58
So sorry for your loss Friede. Our thoughts are with you.


Posted By: Lewian
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 08:00
Sad news! I'm very sorry for your loss, Friede!


Posted By: progaardvark
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 10:35
I'm sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.

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Posted By: BaldFriede
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 12:09
Thank you all for your kind words.

There was a ridiculous aftermath to her death. The doctor who issued the death certificate found a black and blue spot on the back of my Mum and informed the police; we were actually suspected of having done away with her, and an autopsy was made. Of course it turned out that this had not been the case.


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Posted By: AZF
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 14:37
Very sorry to read this and hope you and your family are able to get through this unfortunate change of circumstances.


Posted By: Logan
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 14:52
I'm very sorry to hear about your mother. Take care.

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Posted By: micky
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 15:43
Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Thank you all for your kind words.

There was a ridiculous aftermath to her death. The doctor who issued the death certificate found a black and blue spot on the back of my Mum and informed the police; we were actually suspected of having done away with her, and an autopsy was made. Of course it turned out that this had not been the case.

Granted we are exceedingly good at exporting not just our crass culture but also the very seedy side of America aboard but it does seem the good Doctor has been watching just a bit too much cheap trashy American reality T.V and thinks everyone is out to off dear old mom for a few damn dollars. 

sorry to hear that Friede.. as it that wasn't difficult enough.. and so for all Americans.. I do apologize..


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Posted By: MortSahlFan
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 16:15
I'm very sorry for your loss.


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Posted By: dr wu23
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 16:22
I'm also sorry for your loss..........................................been there with both my mom and dad.
But good memories will always remain.


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Posted By: verslibre
Date Posted: July 22 2019 at 18:09
Friede, I'm sorry I only just saw this. Very sorry for your loss. 

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Posted By: Odvin Draoi
Date Posted: July 24 2019 at 19:29
For your mother: RIP
For you: condolences and wish you spiritual strength. Death is instant for a person, she neither suffers nor enjoys life anymore, which is OK. Yet it can be compelling or overwhelming for the family and friends. Hope it can be smooth for you, as far as it can get.


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Posted By: chopper
Date Posted: July 25 2019 at 04:21
My condolences to you all.


Posted By: Jaketejas
Date Posted: August 03 2019 at 23:59
Somehow I missed this post, and I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. Losing a parent is heart wrenching, I know. I hope you find comfort in fond memories of your times together. I find these often come when you least expect them. Please accept my condolences.


Posted By: BaldFriede
Date Posted: August 04 2019 at 02:41
I thank you all for your support.


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Posted By: jamesbaldwin
Date Posted: August 04 2019 at 05:38
Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Sadly my Mum just died. She was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer about three months ago, and her health had been deteriorating rapidly since then. We are all very sad here; she had been a great woman. She died peacefully at home at the age of 85. R.I.P.


Hug

hug for you


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