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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 10:12
Personally I think that Mexican food without shredded cheddar cheese is an abomination.
Also, anyone caught eating a ham sandwich without swiss cheese should be arrested by the food police.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 11:42
I agree that no one should care or put any emphasis on whether a prog musician is gay or not, and yes it is like making a cheese lovers/prog thread. However, I think the person who started the thread just finds comfort that some of the musicians they like share the same values. I know I'd be all jazzed if Geddy Lee's favorite cheese was 2 year aged Sharp White  Cheddar.(my favorite) It wouldn't matter if he didn't like it, but as stated before-it'd be nice to know if me and him shared something in common. Just a thought...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 11:51
Well, consider it resolved then.  Now are there any gay cheeses out there? Tongue

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 11:59
Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Well, consider it resolved then.  Now are there any gay cheeses out there? Tongue


I can out some gay cheeses, no problem. I once had a passionate affair with a piece of blue Wensleydale.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 12:06
Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

... Now are there any gay cheeses out there? Tongue


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 12:06
Originally posted by Hercules Hercules wrote:

Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Well, consider it resolved then.  Now are there any gay cheeses out there? Tongue


I can out some gay cheeses, no problem. I once had a passionate affair with a piece of blue Wensleydale.


Yes, you can out gay cheeses, but if they get upset about it you should definitely run away. LOL

Nothing more dangerous than a cheesed off cheese.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 15:50
Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

Originally posted by zachfive zachfive wrote:

Bowie.


Bisexual.


Actually, in the words of Bowie "I´m trisexual, in that I will try everything"


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 17:47
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As a gay man (first time I've mentioned this on here), I couldn't agree more.

There are far more gays/bisexuals in prog than those you have mentioned; I know because I was active in both the prog and gay scene in London in the 70s/80s. But I'll be damned if I'm going to "out" anyone.  A person's sexuality is his/her business. It doesn't affect their music, so please don't pry.


In my post above your original quote I said: "I am only interested in musicians who are out, not figuring out or outing closeted musicians."  I am not here to pry! I just wanted to know who was already out and proud in prog music.

I am not of the opinion that people should be pushed out of the closet if they are not ready. (Except maybe closeted politicians and religious leaders who push for anti-gay agendas. Those hypocrites!). Each gay person should have their own timetable as to when, and if, they want to share something this private with others. In my case, it took me the better part of a decade to fully be out of the closet (from the first time I told a friend, to my family, and at my workplace).


Originally posted by zachfive zachfive wrote:

However, I think the person who started the thread just finds comfort that some of the musicians they like share the same values.


Thank you, zachfive! I don't care if a person is straight or gay. It doesn't make me like their music less either way!

However...

I do applaud and wanted recognition for those progressive musicians who are already out, because it is those brave souls who are role models for others that follow.  That was the reason behind my initial post.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 18:04
Great post for a Newbie!  I always felt I was a lesbian trapped in a mans body and I plunk on the piano a bit! Wink
 
As for your topic you state the fact that prog tended to show some feminized qualities but yet was for the most part (Raff and a few others are exceptions) did not grab female attention.  I find that a bit strange.  Phil Collins once said he felt Genesis early music was very masculine in that it attracted mostly men.  Would someones sexuality affect what they create in the same way as someones philosophy or eduction might? 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 18:05
One of the musicians from Il Balletto di Bronzo is (now) openly gay I've been told. I think it was the keyboardist.

Then there's ney matogrosso from (the atleast progrelated) Secos & Molhados. Not even Shakira can move her hips like that:



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I'm another gay member, although normally I only discuss it if the topic comes up.  For instance, in a pm, when a member found out I was from Montreal, he told me I must have lots of stories about Montreal women, at which point I set him straight.   Wink   I haven't met many other fans who are gay but I am also a fan of folk music and there are more of us there.  In fact, one buddy and I often joke about how, in our perfect world, a gay vacation cruise would feature Maddy Prior (of Steeleye Span) as entertainment instead of some overwrought Streisand or Celine wannabe!  I too applaud catfood03 and hope you stick around.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 18:40
Speaking of gay, if you consider yourself to be so do find Zappa's He's So Gay song to be offensive or funny?

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Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Speaking of gay, if you consider yourself to be so do find Zappa's He's So Gay song to be offensive or funny?


I'm only familiar with Zappa's "greatest hits", so I can't say I've heard "He's So Gay" (a parody of "He's So Fine"?).  I could do a lyric search and get back to you on that one.  Although knowing Zappa's politics a bit I doubt he means offense... or not?

Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Now are there any gay cheeses out there? Tongue


Only the French ones! Wacko


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 19:57
Here's an excerpt, it gets more naughty at the end:
"He's so gay
He's so gay
He's very very gay
He's so gay
He's so gay
And he likes to be that way
With his keys all on the right
He's into rubber every night
He's so gay
He's so gay
He's almost everyone today

He's okay
He's okay
He's got a role he wants to play
He's okay
He's okay
He's just a cowboy for a day

Of course, his evening's not complete
Without some meat in the seat;
Let's skate away
Down santa monica today"

Then there's Keep It Greasy...LOL
To be fair he also insulted Catholic Girls on Joe's Garage.
French cheeses?  Gay?  Aw, come on.  Mon Dieu!!!Shocked



Edited by Slartibartfast - May 28 2009 at 20:05
Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 21:16
Ha! Yup, that sounds like Zappa humor alright! LOL


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 21:20
Originally posted by catfood03 catfood03 wrote:

Ha! Yup, that sounds like Zappa humor alright! LOL


I hope I'm not treading into personal territory but how do you find that humour? I love Zappa and completely understand it's irony (well I think I do a anyway) but do you find it offensive?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 21:25
Originally posted by mrcozdude mrcozdude wrote:

Originally posted by catfood03 catfood03 wrote:

Ha! Yup, that sounds like Zappa humor alright! LOL


I hope I'm not treading into personal territory but how do you find that humour? I love Zappa and completely understand it's irony (well I think I do a anyway) but do you find it offensive?


I think in its day it was offensive because it was attacking a defenseless target.  These days I feel less perturbed as lesbian/gay/bisexual/transgendered folks slowly get full rights and become just another groups to be poked fun at.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 28 2009 at 21:27
Originally posted by kenethlevine kenethlevine wrote:

In fact, one buddy and I often joke about how, in our perfect world, a gay vacation cruise would feature Maddy Prior (of Steeleye Span) as entertainment instead of some overwrought Streisand or Celine wannabe!  I too applaud catfood03 and hope you stick around.


I'd rather be entertained by Geddy Lee impersonators than Cher ones (well, hmmm maybe I should think that over).

Thanks, I hope to be around here for awhile (I've got some more reviews I want to write!)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 01:40
"It don't matter if they likes them men or them women... They's all beautiful people, baby."

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 02:09
Catfood03, you said you like the heavier stuff of Mike Patton. Did you know that Roddy Bottum, the keyboardplayer in Faith No More was more or less the first to come out as gay (in 1993) in metal?

Gorgoroth's Gaahl must be the first to come out of the Norwegian (or any) Black Metal scene.



A side note, but among the 20th century composers there's quite many: Benjamin Britten, Aaron Copland, Karol Szymanowski, Samuel Barber, Leonard Bernstein, Gian Carlo Menotti, Francis Poulenc, Manuel de Falla, John Cage, John Corigliano and moog pioneer Walter (Wendy after the sex change) Carlos mm...

This guy I used to know (who's a gay Residents/Kraftwerk-nutter) said that the worst part about being gay is ABBA!
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