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Topic: Gender Under Avatar
Posted By: rushfan4
Subject: Gender Under Avatar
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 16:27

I'm not sure if this would be a good thing or bad thing but I was thinking that in the forums that it might be a good idea to include the users gender under their avatar.  I realize that this information is available by looking at the member's profile but that isn't as readily available.  Most of the time I think most of us assume that we are talking to a dude, but when the dude turns out to be a dudette it's not cool when you were previously addressing them as a dude.  So my proposal is to add male or female under the user's avatar, or more creatively dude or dudette; or progger or proggerette?  Any thoughts on this?



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Posted By: Queen By-Tor
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 16:31
Personally I think it's enough of a sausage fest around here that when a woman walks in we'll notice. Of course - I just screwed this up in another thread which probably gave you the idea, but they'll usually correct you pretty fast . I think it would be simply depressing to look down a long thread to see "male-male-male-male-male-male-male", but I'm just mostly indifferent.


Posted By: rushfan4
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 16:50
That is part of it but, she'll probably have to spend 50 posts correcting us neanderthals that she is not a dude.  And even the best known women on the site still get mistaken for dudes by new members. 

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Posted By: Chris H
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 17:14
There's women on here?
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
KIDDING!


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Posted By: Raff
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:02
Originally posted by Chris H Chris H wrote:

There's women on here?
 
KIDDING!


LOLLOLLOL

Seriously, though, it does still happen to me to be mistaken for a dude... You see, "Raff" is not particularly gender-specific, so I am not surprised people don't immediately recognise I am a ladyWink.

LOL


Posted By: The Pessimist
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:14
Originally posted by rushfan4 rushfan4 wrote:

So my proposal is to add male or female under the user's avatar, or more creatively dude or dudette; or progger or proggerette?  Any thoughts on this?



Male = Nerd
Female = Miracle



Tumbleweed...


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Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:22
I can't say I'm in favour of the idea myself - it could be like "moths to a lightbulb" Wink


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What?


Posted By: CPicard
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:30
Good Lord! You just ruined my day and my night. Now, I'm feeling so depressed: no woman to share my taste for R.I.O., free jazz, zheul and other horrid musics...


Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:35
^ Confused There are at least two regular female posters on the forum who fit that description so there must be plenty more out there somewhere.

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What?


Posted By: Raff
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:36
I'm not one of theseLOL....


Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:37
That is true Smile

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What?


Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:09
I have a confession to make...

I'm really a woman.  Shocked


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Posted By: Atkingani
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:16
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

I have a confession to make...

I'm really a woman.  Shocked
 
We all knew it since the beginning. TongueWink


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Posted By: Raff
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:20
I don't know why, but it reminds me of the final scene of Some Like It Hot - only with genders reversedLOL...


Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:20
...yeah, who'd a thought Marylin was really a man. Shocked

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What?


Posted By: Atkingani
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:24
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLW5jzHsW7c - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLW5jzHsW7c

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Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:33
Originally posted by Atkingani Atkingani wrote:

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

I have a confession to make...

I'm really a woman.  Shocked
 
We all knew it since the beginning. TongueWink


I'm sorry I had to turn down all your advances.  Wink


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Posted By: rushfan4
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 20:43
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

I can't say I'm in favour of the idea myself - it could be like "moths to a lightbulb" Wink
 
That thought crossed my mind and that was the "bad idea" part of my idea.  It just seems that 3 or 4 times in the last month we have had a lady in our presence mistaken for a dude, and that just seems ungentlemanly of us. 


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Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 20:50
^ I agree - but if any one's going to post a gender-specific remark they really ought to do their homework and at least check the profile first. However, the gender tag is optional in the profile.

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What?


Posted By: kenethlevine
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:12
if we do that we should add gender orientation and sexual orientation too.


Posted By: Queen By-Tor
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:13
might be a plan, although I'm not sure how many people use the site as a dating service.


Posted By: Easy Money
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:19
^ Hush girl!!!


Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:20
Originally posted by King By-Tor King By-Tor wrote:

might be a plan, although I'm not sure how many people use the site as a dating service.


LOL


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Posted By: Queen By-Tor
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:20
Originally posted by Easy Money Easy Money wrote:

^ Hush girl!!!


I get that a lot


@Micky - yes, yes - OTHER than you Wink


Posted By: Chris H
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:23
It would be practically Facebook if it had name, sex, orientation, hometown, religion etc. etc.
 
Just leave it at gender and it will be fine IMO.


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Posted By: Easy Money
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:27
How about a little something about what we like, you know, turn ons and stuff, walks on the beach, candlelit beerbongs etc.


Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:28
I don't know if that is wise idea....   when I first joined the site... me being me.. having a warped sense of humor.  I joined as a 'female'.. with an obviously female name... and had to beat guys off with a stick. Some of our members can be ...quite aggressive.  LOL

no names.. some of you are still around... just know...  I still have that account.. and those PM's saved.

there might be a day I might need them to save my bacon LOL


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Posted By: Chris H
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:28
Well I personally like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. On the flip side, I am not much into health food, but I am into champagne.

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Posted By: Easy Money
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:31
Originally posted by micky micky wrote:

I don't know if that is wise idea....   when I first joined the site... me being me.. having a warped sense of humor.  I joined as a 'female'.. with an obviously female name... and had to beat guys off with a stick. Some of our members can be ...quite aggressive.  LOLno names.. some of you are still around... just know...  I still have that account.. and those PM's saved.there might be a day I might need them to save my bacon LOL



ha ha ha, that is really funny, if I ever have a second account it will be a young female DT fan, Whoops! ... I hope I haven't given someone some bad ideas.


Posted By: Atavachron
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:32
Turn ons:  kittens, big fluffy towels, ice cream, a sense of humor

Turn offs:  snoring, bad coffee, the news 




Posted By: Easy Money
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:34
Originally posted by Atavachron Atavachron wrote:

Turn ons:  kittens, big fluffy towels, ice cream, a sense of humorTurn offs:  snoring, bad coffee, the news 


The news is a major turnoff!!! OMG!!!


Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:35
Originally posted by Atavachron Atavachron wrote:

Turn ons:  kittens



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Posted By: tszirmay
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:36
Are you guys for real, I always thought PA was adating service and that there actually maybe two girls out there like on my avatar !   Prog-harmony , based on musical compatability and profiling, hmmmmm, just maybe the way of the future LOL

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Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:40
Originally posted by tszirmay tszirmay wrote:

Are you guys for real, I always thought PA was adating service and that there actually maybe two girls out there like on my avatar !   Prog-harmony , based on musical compatability and profiling, hmmmmm, just maybe the way of the future LOL


hahahha hell yeah it is the future... beats bars any day...  last one that picked me up at a bar was err... interesting... her HUSBAND was tending bar... which I didn't know at the time...

Ouch


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Posted By: Padraic
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:40
Originally posted by micky micky wrote:

I don't know if that is wise idea....   when I first joined the site... me being me.. having a warped sense of humor.  I joined as a 'female'.. with an obviously female name... and had to beat guys off with a stick. Some of our members can be ...quite aggressive.  LOL



Seriously, though, this is why I don't think the displayed gender thing is a good idea.  Plus, is it that much of a thing to check someone's profile?  The info's all there.


Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:41
actually... in my own way Pat.. that was the point I was making. I don't think it is a good idea.  I did feel uncomfortable... I felt like a piece of meat. 

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Posted By: Atavachron
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:46
you know it's a slow night when a Gender Under Avatar thread rules the new posts


Posted By: Padraic
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:47
you should see what happened to some poor guy's Yes poll


Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:49
yeah...  we need some more controversial additions... as much fun as this is... nothing compares to the spectacle of grown men acting the fool and tearing each other apart.

*munch munch munch*


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Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:53
Originally posted by NaturalScience NaturalScience wrote:

you should see what happened to some poor guy's Yes poll


Yes polls?

right along DT and Rush polls as red meat dangled in front of the jaws of the forum trolls...

can't blame them.... I read through that poll...  was entertaining as hell... especially that picture of that scary looking guy in the Rush T-shirt


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Posted By: Atavachron
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:56
Originally posted by micky micky wrote:

yeah...  we need some more controversial additions... as much fun as this is... nothing compares to the spectacle of grown men acting the fool and tearing each other apart.

*munch munch munch*


absolutely, Billy Joel anyone?




Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:58
Originally posted by Atavachron Atavachron wrote:

Originally posted by micky micky wrote:

yeah...  we need some more controversial additions... as much fun as this is... nothing compares to the spectacle of grown men acting the fool and tearing each other apart.

*munch munch munch*


absolutely, Billy Joel anyone?




A bottle of red,
a bottle of white
It all depends upon your appetite
I'll meet you any time you want
In our Italian Restaurant.


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Posted By: Chris S
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:59
Let's keep PA informative regarding people via the Profiles sectionGeek
 
There are tons of Bebo's, Facebook and MSN dating services outthere requesting sexual persuasions and preferences
 
Music does not discriminateThumbs Up


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Posted By: Padraic
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:03
Originally posted by Atavachron Atavachron wrote:

Originally posted by micky micky wrote:

yeah...  we need some more controversial additions... as much fun as this is... nothing compares to the spectacle of grown men acting the fool and tearing each other apart.

*munch munch munch*


absolutely, Billy Joel anyone?



Love him, put him in PR Wink


Posted By: Atavachron
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:07
 ^ done,  next; Dave Matthews


Posted By: Easy Money
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:20
^ done! JR/F.      How about Funkadelic.


Posted By: Padraic
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:21
added to RIO/Avant


Posted By: Easy Money
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:23
Motherf**kin ANGEL!!!


Posted By: Atavachron
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:31
didn't the girl who played Marcia Brady put out an album..  have to find that


Posted By: Chris S
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:33
Originally posted by Atavachron Atavachron wrote:

didn't the girl who played Marcia Brady put out an album..  have to find that
 
I am sure that was under the pseudonym of Jimmy Osmond..


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Posted By: Chris H
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 22:36
Robert Goulet anybody?

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Posted By: Queen By-Tor
Date Posted: January 16 2009 at 23:51
Zeuhl, obviously.


Posted By: harmonium.ro
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 05:09
Great thread LOL


Posted By: Raff
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 06:22
Well done, guys!LOL


Posted By: Angelo
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 06:48
I see no need for it, and probably over half of our members don't even fill out their profile.

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Posted By: Angelo
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 08:00
Originally posted by The Pessimist The Pessimist wrote:

Originally posted by rushfan4 rushfan4 wrote:

So my proposal is to add male or female under the user's avatar, or more creatively dude or dudette; or progger or proggerette?  Any thoughts on this?



Male = Nerd
Female = Miracle



Tumbleweed...


Ansen is woman??? Shocked


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Posted By: Angelo
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 08:05
Originally posted by Easy Money Easy Money wrote:

Motherf**kin ANGEL!!!


Proto Metal. Done.


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Posted By: rushfan4
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 09:24
Wacko

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Posted By: Angelo
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 09:29
LOL good morning, Scott.

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Posted By: micky
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 09:39
Originally posted by Angelo Angelo wrote:

Originally posted by Easy Money Easy Money wrote:

Motherf**kin ANGEL!!!


Proto Metal. Done.


and moved to symphonic LOL


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Posted By: rushfan4
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 09:50
Originally posted by Angelo Angelo wrote:

LOL good morning, Scott.
 
Good morning Angelo. This thread certainly took a turn for the worse over night. 


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Posted By: Easy Money
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 10:06
Don't worry Scott, we'll pick up all the beer bottles, get the lawn furniture out of the pool and find those poor goldfish somewhere.


Posted By: rushfan4
Date Posted: January 17 2009 at 10:14
LOL

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