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    Posted: April 28 2012 at 05:17
Originally posted by Big Ears Big Ears wrote:

If life was fair, Mr Cameron would have an enormous boil on the end of his nose.
 
Well, it must be fair then cos Mr Cameron has...........
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 28 2012 at 05:16
Originally posted by Dayvenkirq Dayvenkirq wrote:

Originally posted by RoyFairbank RoyFairbank wrote:

LG:ViolinRG: ViolinBG: Violin
DR: Head on wall
KB: Bowdown
SX: Sax man
PG: Pig


What's KB and G, excuse me for the digression?


KB=Keyboards
G= Guitar

so

Lead Guitar, Rhythm Guitar, Bass Guitar
Drums
Keyboards
Saxophone
Peter Gabriel / Pig

I needed a big band accompanying me on that comment.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 28 2012 at 05:10
Some say that life is how you make it, and I tend to agree. Sure, there are some who have everything when they are born, but people who struggle to accomplish something, manage to do it in most of the cases. It is easier to complain than to do something. And no, life is not fair.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 27 2012 at 20:58
Originally posted by RoyFairbank RoyFairbank wrote:

LG:ViolinRG: ViolinBG: Violin
DR: Head on wall
KB: Bowdown
SX: Sax man
PG: Pig

Life is fair when your chewin' screwin' playin' drinkin' sleepin' dreamin' watchin' relaxin'
Life is unfair when your bleedin' when your hairs recedin' when your wife is leavin' when your team's a losin' when your homes explodin' when your beaches are erodin, when election promises are brokin....

What's KB and G, excuse me for the digression?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 27 2012 at 17:49
LG:ViolinRG: ViolinBG: Violin
DR: Head on wall
KB: Bowdown
SX: Sax man
PG: Pig

Life is fair when your chewin' screwin' playin' drinkin' sleepin' dreamin' watchin' relaxin'
Life is unfair when your bleedin' when your hairs recedin' when your wife is leavin' when your team's a losin' when your homes explodin' when your beaches are erodin, when election promises are brokin....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 27 2012 at 17:36
If life was fair, Mr Cameron would have an enormous boil on the end of his nose.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2012 at 16:28
^Likewise
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2012 at 08:31
I do now.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 23:31
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

whatever. (is this tredium going on for much longer?)

 
 
Someone just needs to ask the deeper question:
Do you think about Liz Phair?
LOL


Time always wins.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 22:11
Originally posted by Finnforest Finnforest wrote:

^There will be moments of joy and happiness even during hardship and the death of yourself or a loved one.  Even then, take the good, however brief, from those times.
... Ermm ... I think I see what you are saying: don't think about hardship as much as about the good stuff that is happening at the same time. It's just that in times like these one can't help but think about hardship as a matter of merit. Merit and fairness go hand-in-hand. I don't think that fairness is something made up by a man, but rather sought after by a man in EVERYTHING, and it cannot be ascribed to, say, earthquakes or floods or whatnot. Stuff like this is unintentional. We are not living in the best of all possible worlds.

I guess the question of this thread is too abstract, and a good, intelligent answer to it is beyond our scope.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 21:39
Hello, I'd like a Double Dimple!LOL

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 19:17

It's only going on because you make it go on by commenting snarkily on everything I write. Don't do that and it's over already.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 19:15

whatever. (is this tredium going on for much longer?)

What?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 19:04

Dean: So if you're with me until someone better turns up, that implies that I'm currently the best.

 
I am the best* on the forum.
 
I WIN.
 
*The best at being annoying, apparently, but STILL THE BEST.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 18:53
Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

I can give you 1000 examples to demonstrate that there's no equality of concepts. I could probably do a literature search that reveals the same thing has been shown experimentally. It's just unrealistic to say that they represent the same thing. 


There is some type of disparity in every example of unfairness, I think you are being to restrictive in your understanding of disparity, and too abstract about unfairness. If it is not based on the cognition of differences, what is it based on?

As I have pointed out, unfairness is not necessarily negative or positive. It is not some abstract state of negativity, but the product of you or something being in a certain real position vis a vis potential selfs, situations, or similar others/objects which allows an understanding of being unallowed to fulfill said potential, or being allowed to do so while others/or different objects do not fulfill potential in relation to self, situation or object. The range of things and situations covered by this is immense, and not limited to any one example or simply "jealousy."

Unfairness is the subjective side of Disparity, its objective side.

Unfairness should not be abstracted into just a negative feeling, which renders it incomprehensible. Anything "bad" (abstraction) is "unfair" (abstraction) and life (abstract existence) is not "good" (abstraction) or "bad" (abstraction), so it is not "unfair" (abstraction) ... what does that even mean? This is idealistic analysis divorced from any materialistic analysis, but best not to get into that again.



 




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 17:21
I can give you 1000 examples to demonstrate that there's no equality of concepts. I could probably do a literature search that reveals the same thing has been shown experimentally. It's just unrealistic to say that they represent the same thing. 
"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 16:57
What is life? Are we talking about an unreachable abstraction?

There is life as a human in human society,

and "life".... abstract existence....

Abstract existence as an abstraction intrinsically has no meaning, so of course it can neither be fair or unfair....

Concrete life, as a certain human being in a certain human society, is a different matter....

As has been said, it would then be a subjective matter, I would add, based on perceived disparity....

If the disparity is not percieved... then it would not be unfair. The serf in the example may or may not perceive disparity, as I said, he may see his life as superior... it is really irrelevant. If he does happen to perceive a negative disparity, he is sensing unfairness.

On the other hand, if he thought his lifestyle was superior, then perhaps he would sense a disparity in his favor, unfairness in his favor. So unfairness does not have to be negative or positive, or one or the other.

As for the understanding about disparity and unfairness, it is borne out even by the dictionary definition:

disproportionate; undue; beyond what is proper or fitting: an unfair share.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 16:49
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

Dean: You gotta let this hard-on you have for me go. This thing you're doing following me around and picking on all my posts... it's just not fair.
Only until someone better turns up. I am that fickle and you're not that good.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 16:17
Epig: Yes, yes, we sometimes use words in a general sense that doesn't encompass all possible inclusions, very good, you make this point quite regularly.
Dean: You gotta let this hard-on you have for me go. This thing you're doing following me around and picking on all my posts... it's just not fair.

Edited by Textbook - April 25 2012 at 16:18
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 25 2012 at 16:07
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

A theist could say that life isn't fair, but the afterlife is.


Or a theist might not believe in any afterlife.  Wink
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