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rushfan4
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Topic: Gender Under Avatar Posted: January 16 2009 at 16:27 |
I'm not sure if this would be a good thing or bad thing but I was thinking that in the forums that it might be a good idea to include the users gender under their avatar. I realize that this information is available by looking at the member's profile but that isn't as readily available. Most of the time I think most of us assume that we are talking to a dude, but when the dude turns out to be a dudette it's not cool when you were previously addressing them as a dude. So my proposal is to add male or female under the user's avatar, or more creatively dude or dudette; or progger or proggerette? Any thoughts on this?
Edited by rushfan4 - January 16 2009 at 16:28
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Queen By-Tor
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 16:31 |
Personally I think it's enough of a sausage fest around here that when a woman walks in we'll notice. Of course - I just screwed this up in another thread which probably gave you the idea, but they'll usually correct you pretty fast  . I think it would be simply depressing to look down a long thread to see "male-male-male-male-male-male-male", but I'm just mostly indifferent.
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rushfan4
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 16:50 |
That is part of it but, she'll probably have to spend 50 posts correcting us neanderthals that she is not a dude. And even the best known women on the site still get mistaken for dudes by new members.
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 17:14 |
There's women on here?
KIDDING!
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:02 |
Chris H wrote:
There's women on here?
KIDDING! |
   Seriously, though, it does still happen to me to be mistaken for a dude... You see, "Raff" is not particularly gender-specific, so I am not surprised people don't immediately recognise I am a lady  .
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:14 |
rushfan4 wrote:
So my proposal is to add male or female under the user's avatar, or more creatively dude or dudette; or progger or proggerette? Any thoughts on this? |
Male = Nerd Female = Miracle  Tumbleweed...
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Dean
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:22 |
I can't say I'm in favour of the idea myself - it could be like "moths to a lightbulb" 
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CPicard
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:30 |
Good Lord! You just ruined my day and my night. Now, I'm feeling so depressed: no woman to share my taste for R.I.O., free jazz, zheul and other horrid musics...
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Dean
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:35 |
^  There are at least two regular female posters on the forum who fit that description so there must be plenty more out there somewhere.
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:36 |
I'm not one of these  ....
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Dean
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 18:37 |
That is true
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Epignosis
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:09 |
I have a confession to make...
I'm really a woman. 
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:16 |
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:20 |
I don't know why, but it reminds me of the final scene of Some Like It Hot - only with genders reversed  ...
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Dean
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:20 |
...yeah, who'd a thought Marylin was really a man.
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Atkingani
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:24 |
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 19:33 |
I'm sorry I had to turn down all your advances.
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rushfan4
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 20:43 |
Dean wrote:
I can't say I'm in favour of the idea myself - it could be like "moths to a lightbulb"  |
That thought crossed my mind and that was the "bad idea" part of my idea. It just seems that 3 or 4 times in the last month we have had a lady in our presence mistaken for a dude, and that just seems ungentlemanly of us.
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Dean
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 20:50 |
^ I agree - but if any one's going to post a gender-specific remark they really ought to do their homework and at least check the profile first. However, the gender tag is optional in the profile.
Edited by Dean - January 16 2009 at 20:51
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Posted: January 16 2009 at 21:12 |
if we do that we should add gender orientation and sexual orientation too.
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