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    Posted: November 29 2017 at 11:42
Concerning all the sexual misconduct allegations, not just in politics, but in general:

Don’t get me wrong; I am pretty convinced that all those women are telling the truth and the perpetrators should suffer the consequences of their actions, but whatever happened to “innocent until proven guilty” as an essential factor in western law?

Again, to be clear, the culprits should be punished, but within the confines of the law, just as it applies to any other alleged crimes.

I’m leaving aside the unpleasant matter of determining the truth in these cases, especially for the accusers. That’s a giant and extremely delicate process I don’t intend to get into at the moment for reasons of subject constraint at this point.

But: people getting fired from their jobs or positions without due process seems something that could well open the floodgates to misuse.

If anyone ill-intentioned sees that any allegation is sufficient to get people discredited or lose their jobs, it will inevitably lead to a multitude of unfounded but credible sounding accusations just to get rid of a rival, a boss, an unwanted subordinate, and, and, and. Where will it end?

As unpleasant as it seems, I think that the accused should remain in their posts (unless substantial proof is provided or they step down voluntarily), until the matter is officially settled.

Of course that would lead to extremely nasty circumstances, such we might see with Roy Moore as senator, if he were elected, but people getting fired or forced to resign purely on the accusers’ words just isn’t sufficient in the western system.

We all know what happened during the McCarthy era, when the pure accusation of someone being a communist was enough to land them in jail for years. It seems that a similar path is being set right now.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 11:48
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 12:17
Agreed.  While the majority of these allegations are likely true, it isn't below some people to make false claims knowing their targets will be tarred and feathered in the media before a proper investigation has even begun.  If the allegations are false, then the accusers should be prosecuted to the full extent or sued for damages in civil court...if they are true, then that has to be prosecuted just as seriously, but ruining someone's career solely based on an un-investigated accusation seems like a witch hunt.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 13:08
These types of behaviour must be taken very seriously, of course, but this is quickly turning into a case of collective psychosis.

Hard for me not to laugh in the face of such things.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 13:34
It's shocking how practically all of these sexual monsters are relatively wealthy and successful men. What is it about money that drives men to such actions?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 13:57
^It's a sense of entitlement. Plain and simple.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 16:24
I don't know, what is there to prove?   Most of these men aren't being prosecuted or even indicted, they're being fired.   Just like many women have been fired because they wouldn't welcome some horny loser's advances.  

McCarthy?   Give me a break-- Joe McCarthy was  a vicious, racist drunk who should've been taken out well before he was removed from HUAC.   He destroyed whole families, marriages and lives.   To compare this with McCarthyism is disproportionate and misled.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 16:55
Agreed, I get your point.

I have to concede that Donald Trump is a vicious, racist tea totaler, so that's a world of difference. Sorry about that.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 17:23
Originally posted by npjnpj npjnpj wrote:

Agreed, I get your point.

I have to concede that Donald Trump is a vicious, racist tea totaler, so that's a world of difference. Sorry about that.


Well, since you mention him...I was just thinking how strange it is that the dozen or so women who accused him of sexual misconduct during the campaign have just magically all seemed to vanish from public view.  Where are they and why have they gone silent?  You'd think with all the press given to Roy Moore/Al Franken/other politicians and their past misdeeds that the accusations against Trump would surface again.
 
Have these women all been bought off with settlements and non-disclosure agreements?  Have they been intimidated by Trump attorney's with their cease-and-desist letters?  Were they really valid accusations in the first place?  Don't really know for sure what to believe about the accuracy of these claims but I'd really like to know what the real story is.  If they're true, Mr T has a lot of explaining to do.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 17:27
Yeah, I won't use the term "witch hunt" either but it does seem to be almost an epidemic now. It's just one after the other with the latest apparently being Matt Lauer. Being a fan of public radio they also mentioned Garrison Keilor but he said he touched a woman by accident and meant to pat her on the back. Ummm, ok. Could be. I wasn't there. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 17:49
Originally posted by The.Crimson.King The.Crimson.King wrote:

Originally posted by npjnpj npjnpj wrote:

Agreed, I get your point.

I have to concede that Donald Trump is a vicious, racist tea totaler, so that's a world of difference. Sorry about that.


Well, since you mention him...I was just thinking how strange it is that the dozen or so women who accused him of sexual misconduct during the campaign have just magically all seemed to vanish from public view.  Where are they and why have they gone silent?  You'd think with all the press given to Roy Moore/Al Franken/other politicians and their past misdeeds that the accusations against Trump would surface again.
 
Have these women all been bought off with settlements and non-disclosure agreements?  Have they been intimidated by Trump attorney's with their cease-and-desist letters?  Were they really valid accusations in the first place?  Don't really know for sure what to believe about the accuracy of these claims but I'd really like to know what the real story is.  If they're true, Mr T has a lot of explaining to do.

As likely as women are to win these sorts of cases without any evidence it would make sense that they thought false accusations against the president might be too much of a gamble.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 18:31
Re Trump's accusers: it's just one of those things that get lost because there's such a lot of stuff going down on a daily basis that it's become impossible to keep track.

It's all a fog bank inside a fog bank inside a fog bank.

Just one example: does anyone even remember Puerto Rico anymore? That was on 4th September this year; only ten weeks back and still ongoing. Seems like years ago.

But back to the subject: it's been puzzling me for a while that the US seems to find it necessary to have this thing called something along the lines of "workplace harassment and discrimination training" in a lot of companies, and which is now going to be implemented in the US senate. Seriously? I'd have expected more from the average senator or congressman without such training being necessary (please understand that the president is excluded from that statement). You live and learn, though.

Does that really mean that the average employee or politician, on learning that it might be frowned upon if you nonchalantly squeeze a tit or fondle a fanny in passing, would reply: "Fancy that; I didn't know! I certainly won't do it again, I promise." Everyone knows that that's a no-no, training or not. What's the bloody point?

Here's an idea: years ago smokers got a break for so many minutes every few hours to go and have a fag. Perhaps companies, parliaments, and senates should have a communal room, like a small cinema, where porn is shown all day and everyone could go and have a comfortable w**k every two hours. You could call it the Procreation Room. Have special theme days. Perhaps even make it compulsory. That should ease a lot of the pressure. Problem solved.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 19:40
Originally posted by The.Crimson.King The.Crimson.King wrote:

Agreed.  While the majority of these allegations are likely true, it isn't below some people to make false claims knowing their targets will be tarred and feathered in the media before a proper investigation has even begun.  If the allegations are false, then the accusers should be prosecuted to the full extent or sued for damages in civil court...if they are true, then that has to be prosecuted just as seriously, but ruining someone's career solely based on an un-investigated accusation seems like a witch hunt.

You know, I had a long damn post all typed out but the f*cking captcha ate it again! Stupid f*cking process that hurts the posters but not the spammers.

Short version: Men of power have been taking advantage of women in the workplace forever. Ailes, O'Reilly, Cosby -- a multitude of accusers and millions in attorney fees and settlements.

Harvey Weinstein, a known pig in the film industry, and Hollywood has had that issue for nearly 100 years. The "casting couch" was said with a nod and a wink for years (you either played the game or never worked again).

Donald Trump and Bill Clinton were cock hounds for decades partying with convicted pedophile billionaire Jeffrey Epstein, who plead guilty to soliciting minors for prostitution, spent 13 months in jail, and had to reach monetary settlements with 40 women (yes, that's forty). Epstein and Trump allegedly raped a 15 year old together as well:


Of Epstein, Trump said of him in 2002 (he was convicted in 2008), “I’ve known Jeff for 15 years. Terrific guy. He’s a lot of fun to be with. It is even said that he likes beautiful women as much as I do, and many of them are on the younger side. No doubt about it — Jeffrey enjoys his social life.”

Where there are accusations that run up to 16 different women (in Trump's case), you have to ask yourself not whether they are being truthful, but rather what is the nature of justice in the U.S. that has allowed millionaires and billionaires to get away with it this long?


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 20:48
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I don't know, what is there to prove?   Most of these men aren't being prosecuted or even indicted, they're being fired.   Just like many women have been fired because they wouldn't welcome some horny loser's advances.  

McCarthy?   Give me a break-- Joe McCarthy was  a vicious, racist drunk who should've been taken out well before he was removed from HUAC.   He destroyed whole families, marriages and lives.   To compare this with McCarthyism is disproportionate and misled.



If someone is going to be imprisoned, fired or punished in any way for mere allegations would constitute the very antithesis of what the American justice system supposedly represents. I would doubt anybody would argue that women who have been fired unjustly shouldn't be investigated with as many resources as it takes to get to the bottom of these cases. There are, however, women who have cried wolf in the past and made false accusations when they didn't get their way. Granted that they are the minority but do exist nevertheless.

I didn't take the McCarthy comment as being an equivalency. It's more of a comparison of where these things lead if we allow these kinds of speculative punishments turn into what someone else called a witch hunt. In other words, nipping the MF in the bud before it sprouts into a noxious weed. McCarthyism was a horrible time and this is not the same but the fear of it becoming so always looms when such hysteria presents itself because of how things can possibly snowball into such lunacy.

Personally i believe most of these women and hope all these cases are investigated thoroughly however i am a firm believer as well that one is innocent until proven guilty otherwise there is really no reason for any sort of jurisprudence whatsover now is there? Having said that, i can't say i'm shedding any tears for all this rich bloated pampered celebs who have fallen from their perch.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 20:59
Originally posted by Vompatti Vompatti wrote:

It's shocking how practically all of these sexual monsters are relatively wealthy and successful men. What is it about money that drives men to such actions?


I don't think it has anything to do with money - it's just that we don't hear about all the unknown men who get accused.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 29 2017 at 22:03
Originally posted by Vompatti Vompatti wrote:

It's shocking how practically all of these sexual monsters are relatively wealthy and successful men. What is it about money that drives men to such actions?



No, it's that rich people have a way to getting away with it. But not everyone stays at the top of the ladder forever. Once allegations are able to come out, we are shocked that people we like or know of, happen to be disgusting people.

But we tend to be more strung up about it with celebrities probably because people who are more lower or middle class like the rest of us get locked up faster and in greater numbers
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 30 2017 at 03:56
Sexual abuse is rife across all demographics. The rich and famous are better connected and therefore better able to cover their tracks. All of these liberal Hollywood luvvies that are now falling from grace were all connected to the political establishment, in particular the democrat party. In the UK, the likes of Jimmy Saville was close friends with numerous prime ministers and senior royals. His crimes were known by many for decades. Had he been an avarage Joe who worked in an office or a coffee shop he would have been shopped and concivted 30 years ago.

Hewas described here as a 'national treasure' although most people I know regarded him as a creep. Those calling him a national treasure appeared to be those in high places who knew him, and I believe, knew what he was up to.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 30 2017 at 05:29
Here in Denmark the Metoo campaign has swepped through the country and especially the movie biz seems to have been hit hard. Zentropa (Lars Von Trier) and its head honcho Ålbæk are currently in a downward spiral.

In many ways I find this healthy and necessary in order to weed out all the old school sexism that many don't even seem to acknowledge simply because it has been embedded in certain cultures for sooooo incredibly long.

With all that being said it still pisses me off when I come across those women who want to make laws about stuff that relies as much on the given situation as on the individual. I saw this tv debate yesterday where a woman quite categorically was putting all women in the same bag citing how unacceptable it was, when men whistles after them in the street and how awful it is to be looked at as a piece of meat. Now I can most definitely understand where she was coming from, but I do not condone generalisations in such fickle areas.
I recently worked in a kindergarten where I looked after this wonderful little kid who had some erm let's just say difficulties with his social skills. His mom though was this fiery intelligent woman with a great sense of humour...until she was diagnosed with cancer. She then went through kemo and lost all her beautiful black hair and you know what? The one thing she missed the most was hearing whistles from the builders outside of her apartment when she left for work every morning. It made her feel like a million bucks.

I think it has everything to do about the given situation and the individuals. I just hate it when folks use lazy generalisations in order to pimp their own little agendas...no matter how well meaning their intentions are.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 30 2017 at 06:16
This whole business of what's acceptable and what isn't to the accuser is just one big gray area that fluctuates constantly, depending on things like mood, time of day, physical well being, general hornyness, and how good the person looks who is making advances, even if someone does draw up a catalogue of demeanours.

That's not even counting what should constitute proof of accusation.

And this could open a completely new chapter in the field of blackmail.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 30 2017 at 06:34
Originally posted by Vompatti Vompatti wrote:

It's shocking how practically all of these sexual monsters are relatively wealthy and successful men. What is it about money that drives men to such actions?
 
 
I'm sure this is not confined to the upper wealthy class... Stern Smile
Working class (white or blue collars) or even dole people are also guilty of it, but most likely denouncing a nobody will not get attention....
 
.... and what's the point of trialing someone you can't sue for millions for damages. PigClownEvil Smile
 
 
 
 
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